Ways for children to stay connected with Grandparents during Social Distancing

Being a grandparent is arguably one of life's greatest joys. Grandparents get to be parents all over again, providing unconditional love and getting lots of love in return. But grandparents only have to do the "fun" stuff—take grandkids to the zoo, bake cookies, go to games and such.

Still, grandparents won’t get to see enough of their grandkids especially during the recent COVID-19 pandemic where grandparents are advised to stay indoors and avoid contact with others this can be a trying time.   There will be challenges getting to spend time together.

Social distance and self-isolating doesn't have to destroy the valuable grandparent-grandchild relationship. It is still possible to nurture a loving and close relationship. Follow these tips to help build a bond, no matter the situation.

 

Use Skype or FaceTime.

Yes, seeing the grandkids on a computer or phone screen isn't the same as hugging or snuggling with them. But, video calls using Skype, FaceTime or similar services are a step up from phone calls. They allow you to see each other's expressions and surroundings and can often make you feel like you've actually been together. Grandparents and grandchildren can read books, sing songs and even play games as they see one another in real time. Set up weekly dates that everyone can look forward to and that can become part of a weekly routine.

 

Read bedtime stories.

Grandparents can record themselves reading a favourite bedtime story. Then the parents can show the      video to their kids as they follow along with the same book. If the child isn't comfortable with a change to the bedtime routine, try this activity during a reading session at another time of the day.

 

Display photos.

Pictures of Grandma and Grandpa throughout the house keep their faces familiar. A digital picture frame can showcase a variety of images. Old photos can initiate a discussion about an event like Nana's wedding or a childhood family vacation.

 

Give a house tour.

Have one grandparent film themselves in their surroundings, giving a narrative tour as they wanders from room to room in the home. Your child will love seeing them eats, sleeps and watches television. Kids will feel more comfortable the next time they visit.

 

Share an interest.

Grandparents can buy grandkids a subscription to a magazine and get the same one for themselves. When a new issue arrives in the mail, they can talk about it on Skype, FaceTime, phone or email. Discuss likes and dislikes about the issue and more. Older kids can choose a book to read at the same time as a grandparent. They can discuss it.



Create a photo album.

Kids can use a smartphone camera or a digital or disposable camera to take pictures of their day. Then send the images to Grandma via text, email or mail. Grandma can then print the photos and arrange them in an album. When Grandma is with the kids, they can spend time discussing the images.

 

Speak their language.

Older kids may want to communicate with grandparents "their" way—via text, email, instant messages or Facebook (as long as the grandchild is OK having a grandparent as a Facebook "friend"). They can talk on the phone, just the two of them, which likely will make them feel special. Or they can create a private group page on Facebook or start a website where they can share messages and photos.

 

Teach something new.

Grandparents can instruct their grandkids about something, even from afar. For example, Grandma can share how to make her famous brown bread. They can email about the ingredients needed. Then the two can whip it up together over Skype or FaceTime. Add a dose of fun with songs, family stories and books about the recipe. Kids will likely open up and share their cooking experiences.

 

 Play games.

You can play games even if you aren't together; that's the beauty of the Internet. Play card games, crosswords, chess and more, all online. Playing games will offer a shared experience and give grandparents and grandchildren something to talk about.

 

To set up any of the follwing click the link and follow direction on website

Skype - https://www.skype.com/en/

            Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/

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